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The Power of Silence: Why You Should Never Tell Narcissists They Are Narcissists
What happens when you dare to utter the words "you are a narcissist" to such an individual? Brace yourself for a tantrum you never saw comin
Oct 14, 20244 min read


Is My Partner a Narcissist? Twenty of the Most Common Behaviors
Before things escalate further, take a step back, evaluate the signs, and ask yourself the question, "Is my partner a narcissist?"
Oct 14, 20243 min read


Narcissist Predator: The Pathological Nature of Those Who Thrive on Hurting Others
The world is a stage, and in the shadows lurk predators whose actions rarely align with conventional empathy and kindness.
Oct 13, 20244 min read


Trauma Bonding: Understanding the Devastating Impact On Narcissistic Abuse Survivors
A trauma bond is a phenomenon that can keep abuse victims trapped in cycles of toxicity and control long after they've escaped their abuser.
Oct 11, 20245 min read


How To Expose the Narcissist's Manipulative Behavior During Divorce or Custody Mediation
Tried and true tactical approaches that will expose the narcissist's manipulative behavior during divorce or custody mediation.
Oct 11, 20245 min read


Limiting Beliefs: The Self-Sabotaging Lies You Tell Yourself
What lies are you telling yourself? Are you not good enough, not worthy of love, that something must be wrong with you, that you are flawed?
Oct 10, 20246 min read


Pathological Narcissistic Abuse: Psychological Warfare and Brainwashing
Pathological narcissistic abuse is far more damaging than any of us can conceive. No doubt-it is both psychological warfare and mind control
Oct 9, 20243 min read


Can Narcissists Ever Change?
it can be profoundly difficult to release our attachment to someone we deeply care for, even if that person remains a source of deep pain
Oct 8, 20247 min read


Brainwashing: The Cunning Psychological Tactic Used in Narcissistic Abuse, Domestic Violence, and Cults
Exploring the confusing psychological tactic of brainwashing used in narcissistic abuse, domestic violence, and cults.
Oct 7, 20245 min read


Narcissistic Mothers and Enabling Fathers: When Children Don't Stand a Chance
Adult children of narcissistic abuse can never confront their parents and get an admission, validation, or apology.
Oct 7, 20248 min read


Narcissistic False Self: Unveiling the Mask
Delving into the various attributes of the narcissist's false self, unraveling the layers of deception and grandiosity that define it.
Oct 6, 20245 min read


High Conflict Divorce: CDC Certified Divorce Coach and Strategist, Parental Alienation Specialist, and Private Investigator Susan Shofer's Unparalleled Expertise
Susan Shofer, divorce strategist & PI, expertly guides people through the tumultuous waters of high conflict divorce and parental alienation
Oct 6, 20245 min read


Narcissistic Parents: Do They Truly Love Their Children?
As a recognized authority on narcissistic abuse, Randi Fine addresses the question, "Do Narcissistic Parents Truly Love Their Children?"
Oct 6, 20241 min read


Future Faking: Beware Narcissistic Time Bandits
Future fakers listen intently to what you say so they can manipulate the relationship and keep you in a holding pattern.
Oct 5, 202414 min read


How To Communicate With A Narcissist: Resisting The Temptation To Have The Last Word
Delving into the intricate dynamics of communicating with a narcissist, exploring why obtaining that final say may be a fruitless pursuit.
Oct 5, 20246 min read


Spiritual Narcissistic Abuse: Manipulation Through the Fear of Spiritual/Religious Non-Compliance
Narcissistic spiritual abuse attacks people at the place where they are most vulnerable, the heart of the very thing that gives them ease.
Oct 5, 20244 min read


Religious Abuse: Unveiling the Trauma, Navigating the Healing
Religious narcissistic abuse, a sinister cocktail of manipulation and spiritual coercion, leaves a trail of shattered souls in its wake.
Oct 4, 20245 min read


Parental Alienation: The Devastating Impact Of A Narcissist Alienating the Loving Parent
Parental alienation: when precious children become collateral damage in the hands of a manipulative narcissist.
Oct 4, 20244 min read


Narcissist Predator: Beware The Most Dangerous Creature Walking the Earth
Narcissists quickly infiltrate the Beware the narcissistic predator: among the most dangerous creatures walking the earth.
Oct 4, 20246 min read


Parental Alienation: When Children Are Turned Against Their Loving Parents
Parental Alienation When Children Are Turned Against Their Loving Parents Written by Narcissistic Abuse Expert and Recovery Coach Randi Fine Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine Helping victims of parental alienation is one of the most heart-wrenching aspects of my recovery coaching practice. These are parents who, despite their deep love and commitment, find their children turned against them by a vindictive ex-partner. The sense of helplessness they e
Oct 3, 20247 min read
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