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Randi Fine's Blog


The New Year After Narcissistic Abuse: Why You Don’t Feel the Fresh Start Everyone Promises
The New Year after narcissistic abuse can feel confusing, heavy, and emotionally disorienting. While others talk about fresh starts and resolutions, survivors often feel grief, exhaustion, or a nervous system still in recovery. This article explains why healing doesn’t follow the calendar and what true recovery looks like after prolonged emotional trauma.
Dec 26, 20256 min read


Surviving the Holidays After Narcissistic Abuse: Your Permission Slip to Stop Performing Emotional Labor
Surviving the holidays after narcissistic abuse can feel overwhelming and emotionally draining. This season, you don’t have to perform, absorb tension, or carry the emotional weight of others. Learn how to protect your peace, set boundaries, and choose healing over obligation. You deserve a holiday that feels safe for your nervous system.
Dec 5, 20254 min read


Finding Gratitude During Hard Times (Thanksgiving 2025)
This expert guide helps you find genuine gratitude during hard times and holiday stress. Learn practical techniques—like journaling and reframing challenges—to build emotional resilience and heal, especially after difficult experiences. The article validates tough emotions while providing strategies for finding small joys and building a strong support system for ongoing recovery.
Nov 28, 20254 min read


Narcissistic Mothers: A Collection of Satirical Mother's Day Greetings
a collection of satirical Mother's Day cards, for your enjoyment only, that humorously highlight the quirks of narcissistic mothers.
May 12, 20241 min read
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