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Randi Fine's Blog


New Year: A Wish For Healing and Growth in 2025
As we step into the New Year 2025, it's an opportune time to reflect on our past experiences and set intentions for healing and growth.
Dec 23, 20242 min read


Is Emotional Abuse Domestic Violence? Understanding the Silent Agony
Recognizing emotional abuse as a form of violence is crucial to understanding its damaging effects.
Dec 18, 20248 min read


Letting Go Of Control: Embracing the Potential of Influence
When dealing with life's obstacles acknowledging the difference between influence and control can lead to greater peace and more fulfillment
Dec 17, 20245 min read


Letting Go of the Past: The Process of Changing Patterns and Redefining Our Identity
Healing from and letting go of our past is possible for everyone. We need the bravery to take that first step and the resolve to keep going.
Dec 13, 20245 min read


Magical Thinking and Denial: When Wishing Does Not Make It So
Magical thinking and denial help individuals provide temporary solace and cope with the loss of control in unsettling situations.
Dec 11, 20245 min read


Parenting Strategies: How To Raise Emotionally Healthy Children
We cannot fool ourselves into thinking that children will do as we say, not as we do. Our actions speak volumes louder than our words.
Dec 7, 20245 min read


Healing from Narcissistic Abuse: Overcoming Backslides
Dealing with the aftermath of narcissistic abuse can be incredibly challenging. Backslides are to be expected.
Dec 6, 20243 min read


Is Narcissism a Mental Illness?
Delving deep into the complexities surrounding narcissistic personality disorder and its classification in the world of mental health.
Dec 5, 20244 min read


Relationship Codependency: The Confusion and Disappointment of Love Addiction
Have you ever believed that you could love someone enough to fix whatever is wrong in that person's life?
Dec 3, 20244 min read


Codependency in Relationships: The White Knight Syndrome
Codependency in relationships is often referred to as the "White Knight" syndrome due to the tendency of individuals to adopt a rescuer role
Dec 3, 20244 min read


Narcissistic Abuse Awareness: Why Statistics Are Unjust to Victims
Narcissistic abuse awareness is increasingly recognized in society but the statistics often fail to capture the experience of those affected
Nov 24, 20244 min read


Denial: Benefits and Dangers of Emotional Blindness
Denial becomes a problem when we use it for extended periods of time to avoid accepting a truth or working through our issues.
Nov 19, 20249 min read


Worrying: Chronic Obsession With Life's "What Ifs"
Worrying about the future does not make life safer or more predictable. It causes anxiety and consumes us with fear.
Nov 18, 20247 min read


Long Term Effects of Narcissistic Abuse: Impact of Childhood Trauma Lasts A Lifetime
The long term effects of narcissistic abuse sets children up for a lifetime of and a plethora of frustrating issues in adulthood.
Nov 17, 20243 min read


Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: What Is The Best Method For You?
A specialized approach is needed for those who have endured narcissistic abuse and the complex challenges that accompany it.
Nov 14, 20244 min read


Thanksgiving 2024: Finding Gratitude During Challenging Times
Thanksgiving 2024 Finding Gratitude During Challenging Times Written by Narcissistic Abuse Expert and Recovery Coach Randi Fine Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine Finding Gratitude During Challenging Times, Thanksgiving 2024 Thanksgiving often represents a time for family, friends, and feasting. But when life gets tough—be it due to financial struggles, personal losses, relationship challenges, or wider global events—feeling thankful may seem like an up
Nov 13, 20246 min read


Recovering From An Emotionally Abusive Relationship: Grieving The Loss Of A Person Who Used, Exploited, and Objectified You
Ending a relationship with an abuser with whom you were emotionally invested should be a relief, but it may not be. It is always painful.
Nov 8, 20246 min read


The Addictive Personality
In this blog post, we explore the traits of addictive personalities, their causes, societal implications, and paths toward recovery.
Nov 4, 202413 min read


Being Too Nice: Why It Can Actually Harm Your Health
Let's delve into the complexities and repercussions of excessive niceness and explore why being too nice can actually harm your health.
Nov 2, 20245 min read


Treatment For Narcissistic Abuse: Why Traditional Psychotherapy Is Ineffective
This post explores the reasons why traditional therapy doesn't effectively address the unique challenges of narcissistic abuse recovery.
Oct 27, 20248 min read
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