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Recovering From An Emotionally Abusive Relationship: Grieving The Loss Of A Person Who Used, Exploited, and Objectified You
Ending a relationship with an abuser with whom you were emotionally invested should be a relief, but it may not be. It is always painful.
Nov 8, 20246 min read


Divorcing A Narcissist? How to Assemble the Essential Winning Team
Investing a modest amount in your high conflict divorce team now can save you from facing tens of thousands in legal expenses down the line.
Oct 29, 20247 min read


Couples Therapy: Does It Work with Narcissistic Partners?
Narcissists cannot admit their flaws without shifting from feeling special to worthless. This makes couple's therapy quite challenging.
Oct 28, 20246 min read


Married To A Narcissist: Are You In A Relationship Or An Emotional Hostage Situation?
What happens when one person honors the wedding vows and the other person does not?
Oct 26, 20245 min read


How to Deal With a Narcissist: Twenty-Five Strategies
Twenty-five suggestions to help you be strategic in safeguarding yourself and aid you in managing the narcissist in your life.
Oct 21, 20246 min read


How to Stop Attracting Narcissists: Your Guide to Breaking the Cycle
Once you've been with a narcissist, it feels like they’re everywhere, just waiting to catch your eye. Do you have a vibe that pulls them in?
Oct 14, 20243 min read


Is My Partner a Narcissist? Twenty of the Most Common Behaviors
Before things escalate further, take a step back, evaluate the signs, and ask yourself the question, "Is my partner a narcissist?"
Oct 14, 20243 min read


Trauma Bonding: Understanding the Devastating Impact On Narcissistic Abuse Survivors
A trauma bond is a phenomenon that can keep abuse victims trapped in cycles of toxicity and control long after they've escaped their abuser.
Oct 11, 20245 min read


How To Expose the Narcissist's Manipulative Behavior During Divorce or Custody Mediation
Tried and true tactical approaches that will expose the narcissist's manipulative behavior during divorce or custody mediation.
Oct 11, 20245 min read


Can Narcissists Ever Change?
it can be profoundly difficult to release our attachment to someone we deeply care for, even if that person remains a source of deep pain
Oct 8, 20247 min read


High Conflict Divorce: CDC Certified Divorce Coach and Strategist, Parental Alienation Specialist, and Private Investigator Susan Shofer's Unparalleled Expertise
Susan Shofer, divorce strategist & PI, expertly guides people through the tumultuous waters of high conflict divorce and parental alienation
Oct 6, 20245 min read


Future Faking: Beware Narcissistic Time Bandits
Future fakers listen intently to what you say so they can manipulate the relationship and keep you in a holding pattern.
Oct 5, 202414 min read


How To Communicate With A Narcissist: Resisting The Temptation To Have The Last Word
Delving into the intricate dynamics of communicating with a narcissist, exploring why obtaining that final say may be a fruitless pursuit.
Oct 5, 20246 min read


Parental Alienation: The Devastating Impact Of A Narcissist Alienating the Loving Parent
Parental alienation: when precious children become collateral damage in the hands of a manipulative narcissist.
Oct 4, 20244 min read


Parental Alienation: When Children Are Turned Against Their Loving Parents
Parental Alienation When Children Are Turned Against Their Loving Parents Written by Narcissistic Abuse Expert and Recovery Coach Randi Fine Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine Helping victims of parental alienation is one of the most heart-wrenching aspects of my recovery coaching practice. These are parents who, despite their deep love and commitment, find their children turned against them by a vindictive ex-partner. The sense of helplessness they e
Oct 3, 20247 min read


Why Do People Stay With Narcissists: What Makes It So Hard To Leave?
In the complex world of relationships, many struggle to understand the connection between a person and their narcissistic abuser.
Oct 2, 20247 min read


Divorcing A Narcissist: Twenty Strategies and Tips
Divorcing a narcissist can often feel like navigating a minefield. Here are 20 strategies & tips to help you move forward with confidence.
Sep 25, 202410 min read
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