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Twenty Questions Identify Codependency Issues

Codependency Quiz

Two intersecting circles represent your space, their space, and codependency enmeshment.

Is Codependency a Problem in Your Life and Relationships

Written by Randi Fine

Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine

Take The Quiz

To find out if you are suffering from relationship codependency, please answer yes or no to the following twenty questions:

  1. Do you put others’ feelings, desires and needs before your own?

  2. Are you drawn to relationships with people who lack stability and/or are irresponsible in a particular area of their lives?

  3. Do you have a compulsive need to help, nurture, fix or control others?

  4. Are you always looking for the potential in others, rather than accepting others as they are?

  5. Do you cling to hope that your partner will change, beyond all evidence of rationale?

  6. Are you attracted to people with addictions?