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Are you ready to divorce a high-conflict, narcissistic spouse?

You must be feeling:

  • Scared

  • Worried

  • Confused

  • Overwhelmed

Of course you are!!!

Who wouldn't be?

It feels like an almost impossible situation.

It's not impossible at all!

You've made the first step and that is you are ready to divorce, but you don't know how.

WE DO!!!!

We at Messy Divorce Solutions™ have the blueprint, specifically geared to successfully divorcing the high-conflict, narcissistic spouse.

We help you keep your:

  • Sanity

  • Financial Stability

  • Physical Health

You don't want to stay in your marriage any longer. You are ready to make the move - ready to begin the divorce process and move forward in your life. And we are ready to show you how.

Our name says it all. We at Messy Divorce Solutions™ truly do have the solutions! We are here for you in a two-day, twelve-hour workshop. At this workshop you will learn:

  • Who the narcissist really IS.

  • How the narcissist behaves in divorce.

  • How to keep your finances in good shape, during and after the divorce.

  • Ways to keep your children protected, safe and shielded from the divorce "drama".

  • How to find the right attorney for your divorce.

  • Ways to optimize your physical and emotional health.

  • And so much more!

So who are we at Messy Divorce Solutions™?

We are Susan Shofer and Randi Fine.

With our combined 40+ years, helping thousands of people just like you, we know how to successfully divorce a narcissist.

susan shofer divorce consultant and coach

I'm Susan Shofer, a two-decade corporate private investigator who turned Divorce Consultant and CDC Certified Divorce Coach twelve years ago. My specialty is high conflict divorce and parental alienation, and I am a member of Parental Alienation Study Group. I have coached thousands of people, from all over the world, to successfully navigate their high conflict divorce.  My extensive court testifying experience as a private investigator and  thousands of hours spent in the court room has helped me teach my clients how to understand the choreography of divorce and the courtroom. I am a TEDx speaker; my talk on Parental Alienation can be viewed on YouTube. I was also Curator/Event Planner for TEDxRolandPark in Baltimore, Maryland in 2022. I am the author of several books on Amazon.


And I am Randi Fine, a World-Renowned Narcissistic Abuse Expert and Coach in private practice, with 15 years of experience coaching victims and survivors of narcissistic personality disorder abuse worldwide. An accomplished coach with proven success, I have directly guided over 1200 clients toward rapid emotional healing, and thousands more through articles, interviews, videos, and podcasts. As a Certified Neuro Bilateral Processing Coach and a Certified Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP) Practitioner, I am experienced in guiding trauma survivors through a unique, non-triggering memory release technique, and helping them regulate their traumatized nervous systems. I have been the host of the highly acclaimed wellness podcast A Fine Time for Healing for more than twelve years, and to date have interviewed over 500 guests. I am the best-selling author of Close Encounters of the Worst Kind Second Edition: The Narcissistic Abuse Survivor’s Comprehensive Guide to Healing and Recovery, the Close Encounters Comprehensive Workbook, and the compelling memoir, Cliffedge Road.

You will also meet great speakers who are experts in law, health, and finance, as well as people just like you who have successfully divorced narcissists. You will hear harrowing stories of what their married lives with narcissists were like, but even better, how their inspiring successes brought them to the wonderful life they are living today.

Our amazing, one-of-a-kind Spring 2024 Messy Divorce Solutions Divorcing a Narcissist Bootcamp™, which takes place on Saturday and Sunday, May 4th and 5th, from 10am ET to 4pm ET, is just $47.00 .That comes to $3.90 per hour   - worth the small fee to step into the strategy of divorcing a narcissist and getting your life on track; the life you want and the life you deserve.

So, ask yourself - What's worse than being in a bad marriage with a narcissist for 5, 10, 20, or 30 more years? Being in a bad marriage for 5 years and a day, 10 years and a day, or 20 plus years and a day?

To reserve your space for the Spring 2024 Messy Divorce Solutions Divorcing a Narcissist Bootcamp™, just click here.

What are you waiting for? You have nothing to lose and everything to gain!

Once you sign up you will receive a Zoom invite to the Spring 2024 Messy Divorce Solutions Divorcing a Narcissist Bootcamp™.

Keep your eye on your emails for exciting information about the event.

This is the first step into your new and exciting life.

If you have any questions, feel free to email them to or

We can't wait to meet you!

Susan and Randi

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