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Twenty Signs Your Abuser is a Narcissist

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Twenty Signs Your Abuser is a Narcissist

Written by Randi Fine, Narcissistic Abuse Expert

Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine

Do you suspect that your abuser is a narcissist? Here are twenty of the most common behaviors you may be experiencing:

  1. Does he rage when his opinion, point of view, or idea is challenged, even slightly?

  2. Is she emotionally abusive most of the time, but occasionally demonstrates acts of kindness?

  3. Does he criticize your opinions, choices, appearance, and just about everything that defines you as an individual?

  4. Does she treat you more like an object than a person?

  5. Have you caught him in obvious lies or half-truths and confronted him about them, only to have him explain them away every single time?

  6. Is she abusive to you behind closed doors and perfectly charming when with others?

  7. Does he make you feel insecure, unattractive, stupid, and/or worthless?