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How Do Narcissists Choose Their Victims? Exploring Exploitable Vulnerabilities In Various Personality Types, Dispositions, and Circumstances
Have you ever asked yourself, "How do narcissists choose their victims?" If so, the answer might astonish you. While some might assume narcissists always target weak people, that is not always the case. In fact, evidence shows they may also be attracted to those who are confident, successful, attractive, and strong-willed.
7 days ago6 min read


Overcoming Guilt and Shame: Understanding Choices Made Under Narcissistic Influence
Living under the influence of a narcissist can leave deep emotional wounds. Many survivors struggle with feelings of guilt, shame, and self-blame for the decisions they made during childhood, adulthood, or while in a relationship.
Aug 174 min read


Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: Unparalleled Expertise and Extraordinary Success of World-Renowned Expert Randi Fine
Renowned narcissistic abuse expert and recovery coach Randi Fine's impact and dedication to helping survivor's heal is immeasurable.
Jan 205 min read


Victim Blaming: Understanding and Responding to Misinformed Judgment
Narcissistic abuse victims typically face harsh judgments and victim blaming from people who do not fully understand their experiences.
Jan 144 min read


Emotional Eating Disorders: How Narcissistic Abuse May Impact Our Relationship With Food
Exploring the intricate relationship between narcissistic abuse & emotional eating disorders; how it may impact our relationship with food.
Jan 136 min read


Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: Is Forgiveness Mandatory?
Forgiveness of others cannot possibly be the first consideration when it comes to narcissistic abuse healing.
Jan 116 min read


Recovery From Narcissist Abuse: Why It's So Frustrating and Challenging
The journey to recovery from narcissist abuse is often marked by frustration. Healing is rarely a straight path, trapped in survival mode.
Jan 104 min read


Growing Up In A Narcissistic Family: The Invisible But Heavy Weights Carried By Adult Survivors
Adult children of narcissistic abuse can learn about their past and heal from their past, but will never make sense of their past.
Dec 29, 20246 min read


Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: How to Reclaim Control Over Your Life in the Aftermath
Living with the aftermath of narcissistic abuse can be a challenging journey, but it is possible to reclaim control over your life.
Dec 24, 20244 min read


Self-Love: The Core Principle of Narcissistic Abuse Recovery
Exploring the transformative impact of self-love in the recovery journey from narcissistic abuse.
Dec 16, 20247 min read


Magical Thinking and Denial: When Wishing Does Not Make It So
Magical thinking and denial help individuals provide temporary solace and cope with the loss of control in unsettling situations.
Dec 11, 20245 min read


Domestic Violence and Domestic Abuse: A Sobering Reality For Many Women and Men
While women are often seen as the primary victims, it's important to recognize that about 40% of those affected by domestic abuse are men.
Dec 11, 202411 min read


Healing from Narcissistic Abuse: Overcoming Backslides
Dealing with the aftermath of narcissistic abuse can be incredibly challenging. Backslides are to be expected.
Dec 6, 20243 min read


Narcissistic Relationships: The Dating Game Ruse
Narcissistic relationships often creep silently into our lives, affecting us deeply without our immediate awareness.
Dec 5, 20245 min read


Is Narcissism a Mental Illness?
Delving deep into the complexities surrounding narcissistic personality disorder and its classification in the world of mental health.
Dec 5, 20244 min read


Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: Feeling Isolated, Lonely and Disconnected?
Feeling isolated after narcissistic abuse? Take comfort in knowing that every NPD survivor experiences feelings of isolation and loneliness.
Dec 4, 20244 min read


Hoovering: How the Narcissist Keeps Sucking You Back In
Narcissistic hoovering is a common manipulation tactic used by individuals with NPD to regain control over those they’ve distanced from.
Dec 1, 20245 min read


Parental Alienation Syndrome: A Compassionate, Compelling Perspective for Targeted Parents
A compassionate and compelling perspective, one not commonly considered, to help targeted parents cope with difficult emotions and guilt.
Nov 22, 20248 min read


Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: What Is The Best Method For You?
A specialized approach is needed for those who have endured narcissistic abuse and the complex challenges that accompany it.
Nov 14, 20244 min read


Confronting Your Narcissistic Abuser: Ten Things You Should Know
Are you an survivor of abuse who cannot let your resentments go without first confronting your narcissistic abuser? Ten things to know.
Nov 11, 20244 min read
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