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Can Narcissists Change? Exploring the True Nature of Narcissistic Personality Disorder
Narcissism is a term that stirs up strong reactions, ranging from scorn to curiosity. At its core, narcissism is marked by an inflated sense of self-importance, a deep craving for admiration, and a noticeable lack in empathy towards others. The pressing question many ask is whether narcissists can truly change or heal from these tendencies.
22 hours ago5 min read


How Do Narcissists Choose Their Victims? Exploring Exploitable Vulnerabilities In Various Personality Types, Dispositions, and Circumstances
Have you ever asked yourself, "How do narcissists choose their victims?" If so, the answer might astonish you. While some might assume narcissists always target weak people, that is not always the case. In fact, evidence shows they may also be attracted to those who are confident, successful, attractive, and strong-willed.
3 days ago6 min read


Understanding the Predatory Behaviors Associated with Cluster B Personality Disorders
Understanding the Predatory Behaviors Associated with Cluster B Personality Disorders Written by Narcissistic Abuse Expert and Recovery...
4 days ago5 min read


Overcoming Guilt and Shame: Understanding Choices Made Under Narcissistic Influence
Living under the influence of a narcissist can leave deep emotional wounds. Many survivors struggle with feelings of guilt, shame, and self-blame for the decisions they made during childhood, adulthood, or while in a relationship.
6 days ago4 min read


Narcissistic Families: Roles Assigned To And Played By Children
Many lifetime burdens are placed on children growing up in narcissistic families. The roles placed on them cause a lifetime of problems.
Jan 1910 min read


Healing From a Narcissistic Relationship: 50 Powerful Quotes About The Struggles and Triumphs Of Breaking Free
A collection of fifty empowering rarely-seen powerful quotes about healing and moving on from an abusive, narcissistic relationship.
Jan 1510 min read


Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: Is Forgiveness Mandatory?
Forgiveness of others cannot possibly be the first consideration when it comes to narcissistic abuse healing.
Jan 116 min read


Recovery From Narcissist Abuse: Why It's So Frustrating and Challenging
The journey to recovery from narcissist abuse is often marked by frustration. Healing is rarely a straight path, trapped in survival mode.
Jan 104 min read


Flying Monkeys: Enablers Who Fuel Narcissistic Abuse
Narcissistic abuse is a harmful force that can leave deep emotional wounds. Among the most troubling elements of abuse are "flying monkeys"
Jan 84 min read


Narcissistic Behaviors In Relationships: Identifying The Signs
The lure of narcissists' charisma can be blinding, but their are telltale signs that may reveal the truth lurking beneath the surface.
Jan 15 min read


Growing Up In A Narcissistic Family: The Invisible But Heavy Weights Carried By Adult Survivors
Adult children of narcissistic abuse can learn about their past and heal from their past, but will never make sense of their past.
Dec 29, 20246 min read


What Causes Narcissistic Personality Disorder: Can "Good Parents" Raise Children Who Develop It?
Exploring the question many ask: what causes narcissistic personality disorder, and if good parents can raise children who develop it?
Dec 25, 20244 min read


New Year: A Wish For Healing and Growth in 2025
As we step into the New Year 2025, it's an opportune time to reflect on our past experiences and set intentions for healing and growth.
Dec 23, 20242 min read


Leaving A Narcissist: Should I Stay Or Should I Go?
Exploring the complexities of leaving a narcissist and providing you with clear insights and examples that can help you make your decision.
Dec 21, 20249 min read


Narcissistic Families: The Unspoken Rules Children Must Navigate
Emotional child abuse in narcissistic families is a criminal act of domestic abuse that goes largely unnoticed.
Dec 20, 20244 min read


Is Emotional Abuse Domestic Violence? Understanding the Silent Agony
Recognizing emotional abuse as a form of violence is crucial to understanding its damaging effects.
Dec 18, 20248 min read


Domestic Violence and Domestic Abuse: A Sobering Reality For Many Women and Men
While women are often seen as the primary victims, it's important to recognize that about 40% of those affected by domestic abuse are men.
Dec 11, 202411 min read


Leaving a Narcissistic Relationship: The Top Twelve Excuses Survivors Use That Keep Them Stuck
This post examines twelve excuses frequently used to justify staying in abusive, narcissistic relationships.
Dec 9, 202411 min read


Healing from Narcissistic Abuse: Overcoming Backslides
Dealing with the aftermath of narcissistic abuse can be incredibly challenging. Backslides are to be expected.
Dec 6, 20243 min read


Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: Feeling Isolated, Lonely and Disconnected?
Feeling isolated after narcissistic abuse? Take comfort in knowing that every NPD survivor experiences feelings of isolation and loneliness.
Dec 4, 20244 min read
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