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Flying Monkeys and Enablers Fuel Narcissistic Abuse

Flying Monkeys on rooftop

Flying Monkeys and Enablers Fuel Narcissistic Abuse

Written by Narcissistic Abuse Expert and Coach, Randi Fine

Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine

Narcissists do not work alone. They must have enablers and flying monkeys to help them carry out their elaborate abuse campaigns.

Flying monkeys and enablers are vulnerable people who buy into a narcissist's lies and then robotically do his dirty work. Their goal is to further the narcissist's agenda. Appalled by the cruel and unfair treatment they believe the "victimized" narcissist has been subjected to, they willingly go out and fight her battles. Believing, without proof or question, that the narcissist is the victim and the victim the abuser, they ignorantly wage war on innocent people.

There is little chance of reasoning with these people. They are either blind to the truth, personality disordered themselves, or afraid to stand up to the narcissist. They may even side with the narcissist out of fear of being targeted themselves.

This is extremely frustrating to those suffering the abuse. It seems no one is on the side of the abused.

This podcast discusses:

  1. Who are these recruits?

  2. What's in it for them?

  3. Why are they so loyal?

  4. Why don't they believe the truth when they hear it?

  5. Why can't they see through the lies and manipulations?

Randi Fine is an internationally renowned narcissistic abuse expert and coach, and the author of the groundbreaking book Close Encounters of the Worst Kind: The Narcissistic Abuse Survivor’s Guide to Healing and Recovery Second Edition, the most comprehensive, most well researched, and most up-to-date book on this subject. In addition to helping survivors recognize their abuse and heal from it, this book teaches mental health professionals how to recognize and properly treat the associated abuse syndrome. She is also the author of the official companion workbook Close Encounters of the Worst Kind: A Comprehensive Workbook for Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse. Randi Fine is the author of Cliffedge Road: A Memoir, the first and only book to characterize the life-long progression of complications caused by narcissistic child abuse.


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