Randi Fine's Blog

Your attachment style in relationships influences how you love, trust, and connect. Formed in childhood, it shapes your adult patterns of closeness, communication, and conflict. Discover how early experiences impact your love life — and learn practical ways to heal, build secure attachments, and create healthy, lasting relationships. Awareness is the first step toward rewriting your love story.

Psychopathy is far more than just a label for someone who is cruel or unkind. It is a complex personality disorder, marked by a lack of empathy, manipulative behavior, an outwardly charming demeanor, and often high intelligence. This combination of traits enables them to craft elaborate plans that unfold over long periods of time. Certain individuals do target specific people. They can plan to ruin someone’s life without the person being aware they are on a hit list.

Living under the influence of a narcissist can leave deep emotional wounds. Many survivors struggle with feelings of guilt, shame, and self-blame for the decisions they made during childhood, adulthood, or while in a relationship.

Manipulative people can be masters of disguise. Learn how to spot them before they wreak havoc on your life.

Forgiveness of others cannot possibly be the first consideration when it comes to narcissistic abuse healing.

Understanding the methods of power and control used by abusers is vital for raising awareness and promoting healthy relationships.

Helping you decode the confusing communication commonly used by narcissists, so you can better understand what they are really saying.

The lure of narcissists' charisma can be blinding, but their are telltale signs that may reveal the truth lurking beneath the surface.

Exploring the question many ask: what causes narcissistic personality disorder, and if good parents can raise children who develop it?

Emotional child abuse in narcissistic families is a criminal act of domestic abuse that goes largely unnoticed.

This post examines twelve excuses frequently used to justify staying in abusive, narcissistic relationships.

Dealing with the aftermath of narcissistic abuse can be incredibly challenging. Backslides are to be expected.

Feeling isolated after narcissistic abuse? Take comfort in knowing that every NPD survivor experiences feelings of isolation and loneliness.

The effects of domestic abuse are profound, leaving enduring emotional scars and deep feelings of betrayal.

Passive aggressive behavior is something many of us have faced in our relationships, but could it be a type of covert abuse?

Those with NPD often exhibit a cleverness that can be captivating and a cunning nature that feels diabolical in interpersonal relationships.

Narcissistic abuse awareness is increasingly recognized in society but the statistics often fail to capture the experience of those affected

Diving into the top 15 lies narcissists tell, unraveling their manipulative tactics and shedding light on their deceptive ways.

Very little has been written about the plight of sons with narcissistic mothers. That is grossly unfair to the thousands of men who suffer..

Due to their diabolical, heartless and fiendish behavior, many people refer to their narcissistic abusers as being "malignant".