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Randi Fine's Blog


Why Family Counseling Isn’t Recommended for Adult Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse
Family counseling is often seen as a path to healing—but for survivors of narcissistic abuse, it can be dangerous. Instead of resolution, it frequently leads to retraumatization, manipulation, and deeper invalidation. Learn why family therapy doesn’t work with narcissists, the risks involved, and how to find a safe, trauma-informed therapist who truly understands your healing journey.
Oct 34 min read


Narcissistic Family: The Chaos, Confusion, and Madness of Growing Up in Toxic Dysfunction
Have you ever asked yourself, "What the @#$%? is wrong with my family"? Are you confused by the bizarre behavior of your family members?
Nov 12, 20244 min read


Narcissistic Family: Frustration and Disappointment
The narcissistic family, unlike conventional families, are neither devoted nor cohesive. They are dictatorships; not democracies.
Nov 9, 20243 min read


The Plight of Sons With Narcissistic Mothers
Very little has been written about the plight of sons with narcissistic mothers. That is grossly unfair to the thousands of men who suffer..
Nov 7, 202410 min read


The Hidden Pain of Sons of Narcissistic Maternal Emotional Incest
Emotional incest isn't just a concept; for sons of narcissistic maternal emotional incest it's a painful reality.
Nov 2, 202411 min read


Narcissistic Mothers and Enabling Fathers: When Children Don't Stand a Chance
Adult children of narcissistic abuse can never confront their parents and get an admission, validation, or apology.
Oct 7, 20248 min read
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