Randi Fine's Blog

Trying to reason with a narcissist often leaves you feeling more confused than before. This article explores why logic doesn’t work with narcissists, how manipulation bypasses rational thinking, and why your exhaustion is not a failure, but a sign of a toxic dynamic.

The fear of being a narcissist after abuse is very common among survivors, but it’s actually proof you are not a narcissist. Narcissists lack self-reflection and empathy, while survivors worry about their impact on others, feel guilt, and strive to do better. This self-awareness shows compassion, not narcissism.