Randi Fine's Blog

The New Year after narcissistic abuse can feel confusing, heavy, and emotionally disorienting. While others talk about fresh starts and resolutions, survivors often feel grief, exhaustion, or a nervous system still in recovery. This article explains why healing doesn’t follow the calendar and what true recovery looks like after prolonged emotional trauma.

Self-compassion after narcissistic abuse is essential for healing. This article explores how emotional abuse trains survivors to self-blame, why compassion can feel difficult at first, and how rebuilding kindness toward yourself restores internal safety, self-trust, and emotional regulation. Healing begins when you stop treating yourself like the problem.