Randi Fine's Blog

Looking for a narcissistic abuse support group to help you cope? These groups offer comfort and understanding — but they can also keep you stuck in survival mode. Discover why true recovery from narcissistic relationships or family abuse begins when you shift from external support to empowered, one-on-one healing.

Siblings in a narcissistic family often struggle with rivalry and disconnection. Narcissistic parents use favoritism, control, and manipulation to divide their children, destroying trust and unity. Understanding these toxic patterns helps survivors recognize the truth — the distance between siblings isn’t their fault, but a result of the narcissistic family system.

Living authentically after narcissistic abuse means rediscovering who you truly are beyond fear, control, and judgment. Healing invites you to peel back layers of conditioning and reconnect with your core self—your truth, your voice, your worth. Each act of honesty, self-compassion, and vulnerability strengthens your freedom. You are no longer defined by your past—you are free, whole, and beautifully, authentically you.

If it feels like you’re surrounded by narcissists, manipulators, and abusers, you’re not imagining it—you’re seeing clearly. The percentage of predators hasn’t changed… but your awareness has. And that awareness? It’s the first step toward peace, safety, and empowerment.

Many survivors struggle to understand why they justify narcissistic abuse, especially when it comes from someone they love. It can feel confusing to find yourself defending or excusing an abuser's behavior, or minimizing the harm. The truth is, this tendency is not a personal weakness—it’s a natural trauma response.

Narcissism is a term that stirs up strong reactions, ranging from scorn to curiosity. At its core, narcissism is marked by an inflated sense of self-importance, a deep craving for admiration, and a noticeable lack in empathy towards others. The pressing question many ask is whether narcissists can truly change or heal from these tendencies.

Have you ever asked yourself, "How do narcissists choose their victims?" If so, the answer might astonish you. While some might assume narcissists always target weak people, that is not always the case. In fact, evidence shows they may also be attracted to those who are confident, successful, attractive, and strong-willed.

Living under the influence of a narcissist can leave deep emotional wounds. Many survivors struggle with feelings of guilt, shame, and self-blame for the decisions they made during childhood, adulthood, or while in a relationship.

Renowned narcissistic abuse expert and recovery coach Randi Fine's impact and dedication to helping survivor's heal is immeasurable.

A collection of fifty empowering rarely-seen powerful quotes about healing and moving on from an abusive, narcissistic relationship.

Narcissistic abuse victims typically face harsh judgments and victim blaming from people who do not fully understand their experiences.

The journey to recovery from narcissist abuse is often marked by frustration. Healing is rarely a straight path, trapped in survival mode.

Adult children of narcissistic abuse can learn about their past and heal from their past, but will never make sense of their past.

Living with the aftermath of narcissistic abuse can be a challenging journey, but it is possible to reclaim control over your life.

As we step into the New Year 2025, it's an opportune time to reflect on our past experiences and set intentions for healing and growth.

Narcissistic families are marked by a lack of empathy and a need for control. Steps toward freedom signify your strength and resilience.

Dealing with the aftermath of narcissistic abuse can be incredibly challenging. Backslides are to be expected.

Feeling isolated after narcissistic abuse? Take comfort in knowing that every NPD survivor experiences feelings of isolation and loneliness.

The long term effects of narcissistic abuse sets children up for a lifetime of and a plethora of frustrating issues in adulthood.

A specialized approach is needed for those who have endured narcissistic abuse and the complex challenges that accompany it.