Randi Fine's Blog

Many survivors struggle to understand why they justify narcissistic abuse, especially when it comes from someone they love. It can feel confusing to find yourself defending or excusing an abuser's behavior, or minimizing the harm. The truth is, this tendency is not a personal weakness—it’s a natural trauma response.

Narcissistic abuse leaves deep imprints that can begin as early as the womb. From disrupted fetal coregulation to lifelong challenges with nervous system regulation, survivors often struggle with anxiety, self-esteem, and relationships. This post explores how maternal dysregulation impacts development and offers insight into pathways of healing for adult children of narcissistic abuse.