Randi Fine's Blog

Surviving the holidays after narcissistic abuse can feel overwhelming and emotionally draining. This season, you don’t have to perform, absorb tension, or carry the emotional weight of others. Learn how to protect your peace, set boundaries, and choose healing over obligation. You deserve a holiday that feels safe for your nervous system.

Many survivors struggle to understand why they justify narcissistic abuse, especially when it comes from someone they love. It can feel confusing to find yourself defending or excusing an abuser's behavior, or minimizing the harm. The truth is, this tendency is not a personal weakness—it’s a natural trauma response.