Randi Fine's Blog

In Chapter One of The Post-Narcissistic Reality Hangover™, survivors confront the awakening that occurs when narcissistic abuse illusion collapses. As shock, grief, and clarity surface, reality replaces distortion. The internal rupture feels destabilizing, but it marks the true beginning of narcissistic abuse recovery.

Many survivors struggle to understand why they justify narcissistic abuse, especially when it comes from someone they love. It can feel confusing to find yourself defending or excusing an abuser's behavior, or minimizing the harm. The truth is, this tendency is not a personal weakness—it’s a natural trauma response.