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Randi Fine Blog


Why Family Counseling Isn’t Recommended for Adult Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse
Family counseling is often seen as a path to healing—but for survivors of narcissistic abuse, it can be dangerous. Instead of resolution, it frequently leads to retraumatization, manipulation, and deeper invalidation. Learn why family therapy doesn’t work with narcissists, the risks involved, and how to find a safe, trauma-informed therapist who truly understands your healing journey.
Oct 34 min read


How Pathological Emotional Enmeshment In Families Creates an Existential Crisis
Emotional enmeshment is one of the most damaging yet overlooked forms of family dysfunction. Unlike obvious forms of abuse, it is often disguised as love, loyalty, or closeness.
Sep 115 min read


Growing Up In A Narcissistic Family: The Invisible But Heavy Weights Carried By Adult Survivors
Adult children of narcissistic abuse can learn about their past and heal from their past, but will never make sense of their past.
Dec 29, 20246 min read


Narcissistic Family: The Chaos, Confusion, and Madness of Growing Up in Toxic Dysfunction
Have you ever asked yourself, "What the @#$%? is wrong with my family"? Are you confused by the bizarre behavior of your family members?
Nov 12, 20244 min read
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