Randi Fine's Blog

The fear of being a narcissist after abuse is very common among survivors, but it’s actually proof you are not a narcissist. Narcissists lack self-reflection and empathy, while survivors worry about their impact on others, feel guilt, and strive to do better. This self-awareness shows compassion, not narcissism.

Trauma can echo through generations, but recovery is possible. Explore ways to heal, build resilience, and create a healthier future.

Ending a relationship with an abuser with whom you were emotionally invested should be a relief, but it may not be. It is always painful.