Randi Fine's Blog

Family counseling is often seen as a path to healing—but for survivors of narcissistic abuse, it can be dangerous. Instead of resolution, it frequently leads to retraumatization, manipulation, and deeper invalidation. Learn why family therapy doesn’t work with narcissists, the risks involved, and how to find a safe, trauma-informed therapist who truly understands your healing journey.

Narcissistic abuse leaves deep imprints that can begin as early as the womb. From disrupted fetal coregulation to lifelong challenges with nervous system regulation, survivors often struggle with anxiety, self-esteem, and relationships. This post explores how maternal dysregulation impacts development and offers insight into pathways of healing for adult children of narcissistic abuse.

Narcissistic mothers are not loving, comforting, protective, supportive or reliable. They are far from the idealized version of a mother.

Understanding the different traits associated with engulfing, ignoring, and malignant maternal narcissists is essential for those affected.

a collection of satirical Mother's Day cards, for your enjoyment only, that humorously highlight the quirks of narcissistic mothers.