Randi Fine's Blog

Trying to reason with a narcissist often leaves you feeling more confused than before. This article explores why logic doesn’t work with narcissists, how manipulation bypasses rational thinking, and why your exhaustion is not a failure, but a sign of a toxic dynamic.

In the age of online “honesty,” the self-proclaimed narcissist appears self-aware—but it’s all performance. Their confessions aren’t about healing; they’re about control. By presenting manipulation as vulnerability, they gain admiration while keeping power. True accountability is quiet and humble—never a show designed to confuse, charm, or control.