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Randi Fine's Blog


Narcissistic Abuse and the Brain: Why You Still React After the Abuse Ends
Why does your brain still react as if you are in danger long after narcissistic abuse has ended? Understanding narcissistic abuse and the brain can help explain hypervigilance, triggers, emotional reactions, difficulty thinking clearly, and other responses that can linger after the abuse. Learn why these patterns develop and how your brain can begin learning new ways to respond.
Sep 3010 min read


How to Deal With Triggers After Narcissistic Abuse: Calm Your Nervous System Before You React
Triggers after narcissistic abuse can make ordinary situations feel threatening, even when you know you are safe. Learn why these reactions happen and how calming your nervous system before you respond can help you separate present reality from past fears, rebuild self-trust, and regain a sense of internal safety.
Sep 2112 min read


Why Can't I Stop Thinking About the Narcissist?
If you can't stop thinking about the narcissist or what happened to you, it doesn't necessarily mean you're stuck. Discover why your mind keeps returning to the past, and what true recovery looks like.
Jul 74 min read


Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: Why Understanding What Happened Is Not Enough
Understanding narcissistic abuse is an important first step. But understanding what happened and recovering from its effects are not the same thing. Learn why so many survivors feel stuck and what true recovery requires.
Jun 247 min read
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