Randi Fine's Blog

Standing up to a narcissist often makes things worse, not because you are wrong, but because the dynamic itself is unfair. In narcissistic relationships, confrontation threatens control rather than encouraging reflection. This article explains why reasonable efforts to set boundaries or seek accountability often escalate conflict and how disengagement protects your emotional safety.

In the early stages of a new relationship, many people find themselves wondering: should I give my trust freely, or wait until it’s earned? This is not just a practical question—it’s also an emotional one. When we long for closeness, it’s tempting to open our hearts quickly. But doing so without thought can lead to disappointment or even harm.