Randi Fine's Blog

If healing from narcissistic abuse feels like two steps forward and one step back, you are not failing. Backslides are common after prolonged emotional manipulation and self-doubt. This article explains why setbacks happen, why they feel so intense, and how to move through them without losing clarity or self-trust.

Self-compassion after narcissistic abuse is essential for healing. This article explores how emotional abuse trains survivors to self-blame, why compassion can feel difficult at first, and how rebuilding kindness toward yourself restores internal safety, self-trust, and emotional regulation. Healing begins when you stop treating yourself like the problem.

After narcissistic abuse, the mind remains trapped in the abuser’s reality — even after they’re gone. This post-narcissistic reality hangover is the mental and emotional aftermath of deep psychological conditioning. Through compassionate, specialized coaching, survivors can deprogram the subconscious, rebuild self-trust, and restore their authentic voice. Healing is possible when you work with someone who truly understands this complex trauma.