Take Your Control Back!
Narcissistic Abuse Support and Guidance with Randi Fine
If you want to throw the narcissistic abuser mentally off balance and create the same kind of confusion and disorientation in him or her that you have experienced, employ the exact same deceptive tactics that were used on you. Gaslight her. Insist that you didn't do what he said you did, see what she said you saw, hear what he said you heard, or experience what he said you experienced. Don't argue, explain, or defend. Deny, deny, deny.
Learn your abuser's methods and use them to throw him or her off balance. This is not deception on your part; it is SURVIVAL. Take your power back!
~Randi Fine, Narcissistic Abuse Expert and Coach
Randi Fine is an internationally renowned narcissistic abuse expert and coach, and the author of the groundbreaking book Close Encounters of the Worst Kind: The Narcissistic Abuse Survivor’s Guide to Healing and Recovery Second Edition, the most comprehensive, most well researched, and most up-to-date book on this subject. In addition to helping survivors recognize their abuse and heal from it, this book teaches mental health professionals how to recognize and properly treat the associated abuse syndrome. She is also the author of the official companion workbook Close Encounters of the Worst Kind: A Comprehensive Workbook for Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse. Randi Fine is the author of Cliffedge Road: A Memoir, the first and only book to characterize the life-long progression of complications caused by narcissistic child abuse.