Learn your abuser's methods and use them to throw him or her off balance. Take your power back!
If you really want to blow your narcissistic abuser's mind, use the same deceptive tactics he uses on you. Gaslight her. Insist that you didn't see what he said you saw, hear what she said you heard, or experience what he said you experienced. Don't argue or defend. Deny, deny, deny.
Randi Fine is an internationally renowned narcissistic abuse expert and coach. She is the author of the groundbreaking book Close Encounters of the Worst Kind: The Narcissistic Abuse Survivor’s Guide to Healing and Recovery Second Edition, the most comprehensive, most well researched, and most up-to-date book on this subject. In addition to helping survivors recognize their abuse and heal from it, this book teaches mental health professionals how to recognize and properly treat the associated abuse syndrome. She is also the author of Cliffedge Road: A Memoir, the first and only book to characterize the life-long progression of complications caused by narcissistic child abuse.